Jan. 7, 2024

John Natividad’s Blueprint for Achievement Beyond the Classroom

John Natividad’s Blueprint for Achievement Beyond the Classroom

Join us as we sit down with the remarkable John Natividad, whose unique journey from classroom struggles to international consulting stardom exemplifies that the road to success is paved with more than just academic accolades. On the Health and Wealt...

Join us as we sit down with the remarkable John Natividad, whose unique journey from classroom struggles to international consulting stardom exemplifies that the road to success is paved with more than just academic accolades. On the Health and Wealth and Wise podcast, John peels back the layers of his experiences, revealing how a rich tapestry of diverse education and seizing the right opportunities can lead to astonishing growth and achievement.

Our heartfelt conversation takes a turn towards the resilience we've all had to muster during the pandemic lockdowns, and the creative outlets and learning experiences that have kept us growing. From the comfort of home hobbies to the sharp edge of professional development in fields like data analytics, John and I discuss how continuous learning and a proactive mindset are instrumental in staying connected and advancing in one's career. The integration of technology into every aspect of our lives, particularly in legal professions where big data now plays a crucial role, is transforming traditional paths and demanding a new set of skills.

We wrap up this episode by examining the power of principled living through preparation and intentional actions. I share how strategic planning and mentorship were vital in my own global career trajectory, while John underscores the importance of perseverance and gratitude. It's clear that with tenacity and the nurturing of meaningful relationships, we can weather the ebbs and flows of life and career. This episode isn't just about overcoming hurdles; it's a celebration of the immense rewards that come from service and the profound impact of giving back. Tune in for a dose of inspiration and practical wisdom that could very well shape your own path to fulfillment.

Transcript
100:00:01,910 --> 00:00:03,740Dr William T Choctaw:Okay, welcome everybody.200:00:03,740 --> 00:00:07,610Welcome to the Health and Wealthand Wives podcast with Dr.300:00:07,620 --> 00:00:08,540William Choctaw.400:00:08,560 --> 00:00:14,910We have an exciting guest with us today,a friend of mine, someone that I've grown500:00:14,910 --> 00:00:18,690up with to some extent, John Natividad.600:00:19,655 --> 00:00:22,455And John's going to sharesome of his experiences and700:00:22,455 --> 00:00:24,645some of his words of wisdom.800:00:24,955 --> 00:00:27,375One of the things that we'velearned is that you don't have to900:00:27,394 --> 00:00:30,335be 80 years old to become wise.1000:00:30,355 --> 00:00:31,875You can become wise at 30.1100:00:32,844 --> 00:00:38,915And John is in his 40s, and so he's, he's,he's learned a lot and has traveled a lot.1200:00:39,324 --> 00:00:43,535And so we're absolutely delightedfor him to be with us today.1300:00:44,225 --> 00:00:44,824Good morning,1400:00:44,824 --> 00:00:45,135John: John.1500:00:45,964 --> 00:00:46,615Good morning, Dr.1600:00:46,615 --> 00:00:48,355Choctaw, and good morningto all your listeners.1700:00:48,985 --> 00:00:51,435First and foremost, thankyou so much for having me on.1800:00:51,565 --> 00:00:55,684I'm very blessed and honored tobe able to speak with you today.1900:00:55,684 --> 00:00:57,655It's always great totalk to you and catch up.2000:00:58,424 --> 00:00:59,125Great, thank2100:00:59,135 --> 00:00:59,335Dr William T Choctaw: you.2200:00:59,735 --> 00:01:04,315So, you know, I, and let me saythat I've known John for years.2300:01:04,565 --> 00:01:08,075John and his family arevery close to my wife.2400:01:08,075 --> 00:01:14,615And so, John, tell me what you'vebeen doing since high school.2500:01:15,490 --> 00:01:16,279Oh, sure thing.2600:01:16,279 --> 00:01:20,560John: So since high school, of course,I went through the, you know, went to2700:01:20,560 --> 00:01:22,800college, but I had a circuitous route.2800:01:23,220 --> 00:01:26,880You know, I think in high school,there were times where I didn't do2900:01:26,880 --> 00:01:28,620as well or I wasn't as effective.3000:01:28,689 --> 00:01:30,079You know, I was a bad student, frankly.3100:01:30,459 --> 00:01:32,819So the one thing, at least, I would say.3200:01:33,309 --> 00:01:38,759Is that I had an opportunity to exploredifferent things at an early age that3300:01:38,759 --> 00:01:40,359not everything was a linear path.3400:01:40,929 --> 00:01:44,339High school for me wasn't a linearpath, but eventually I was on the3500:01:44,339 --> 00:01:48,839path, went on to get my undergraduatedegree from Cal Poly Pomona close by.3600:01:49,449 --> 00:01:53,843Started yeah, started intoconsulting working for KPMG in Los3700:01:53,843 --> 00:01:57,913Angeles before moving to New Yorkwith the Boutique Consultancy.3800:01:58,238 --> 00:01:59,908And that's where mycareer really took off.3900:02:00,038 --> 00:02:01,888I started working withmuch larger clients.4000:02:02,453 --> 00:02:04,243And it was a much leaner organization.4100:02:04,853 --> 00:02:06,183Dr William T Choctaw:That's an accounting firm.4200:02:07,003 --> 00:02:07,363Yeah, it4300:02:07,363 --> 00:02:10,473John: was an accounting firm, but Iwas doing more data strategy, I would4400:02:10,473 --> 00:02:12,533say, from a very high perspective.4500:02:13,083 --> 00:02:15,333And so the clients were very similar.4600:02:15,393 --> 00:02:18,173Of course, if you're an accounting firm,who's the first person you talk to?4700:02:18,173 --> 00:02:19,193It's your, your auditors.4800:02:19,193 --> 00:02:20,053Hey, I have a problem.4900:02:20,463 --> 00:02:22,323Do you have anyone in yourcompany that can help us?5000:02:22,753 --> 00:02:25,833And so that was certainly,certainly were my career.5100:02:26,023 --> 00:02:26,923Ha has blossomed.5200:02:27,103 --> 00:02:28,513I, I5300:02:28,518 --> 00:02:30,073Dr William T Choctaw: find itinteresting that you mentioned5400:02:30,073 --> 00:02:34,473that you didn't take a linear interms of high school and college.5500:02:34,653 --> 00:02:40,243What, what would you advise studentswho are not who may be listening now,5600:02:40,423 --> 00:02:41,953who are not taking a linear route?5700:02:42,813 --> 00:02:45,813What, what lessons you, you know, youdon't have to go into detail if you5800:02:45,813 --> 00:02:49,203don't want, but just in general, whattype what, what did you learn from all5900:02:50,633 --> 00:02:51,983John: I, learned that.6000:02:52,408 --> 00:02:57,538Education happens in many places on manydimensions, you might, you might not be6100:02:57,538 --> 00:03:02,738the best students in a classroom, butthere's other avenues for you to really6200:03:02,738 --> 00:03:07,288learn you can learn and whether it's atrade school, whether it's learning from6300:03:07,288 --> 00:03:09,828your mentors, and, you know, there's two.6400:03:10,178 --> 00:03:13,388Two lessons that I've learnedthat have stuck with me that were6500:03:13,388 --> 00:03:16,388not from teachers at Cal Polyand not from teachers at Kellogg.6600:03:16,398 --> 00:03:21,198I went to Northwestern for my MBA andtwo of the biggest lessons in my life6700:03:21,198 --> 00:03:22,578that stick with me till this day.6800:03:22,978 --> 00:03:26,318One is from a priest, someonewe both know, Father Tony.6900:03:26,838 --> 00:03:30,678So he mentioned to me yearsago that relationships matter.7000:03:31,848 --> 00:03:36,078So at any time when, when, whenyou're, when you're dealt a bad hand7100:03:36,078 --> 00:03:39,828or the chips are down, you can leanon those relationships if you've, if7200:03:39,828 --> 00:03:41,288you've taken the time to build those.7300:03:41,783 --> 00:03:42,033Right.7400:03:42,033 --> 00:03:45,663And I think that to meis one of the key things.7500:03:45,763 --> 00:03:50,563The next lesson I've learned was fromsomeone that was from, I guess you7600:03:50,563 --> 00:03:55,328could say, not, not Not the brightestindividual and, and frankly, he was, he7700:03:55,328 --> 00:03:58,808was a member of, of certain nefarious,he was a gang member, I guess, I7800:03:58,808 --> 00:04:00,048could just, without tiptoeing around.7900:04:00,608 --> 00:04:04,638He said to me, everyone has a planuntil you get hit in the mouth.8000:04:05,228 --> 00:04:08,948I know that's attributed to MikeTyson, but as an impressionable young8100:04:08,948 --> 00:04:12,398man, that lesson stuck with me andI will always attribute it to him.8200:04:12,828 --> 00:04:15,878And I think having a diverseeducation, really, your education8300:04:15,878 --> 00:04:17,048just doesn't happen in the classroom.8400:04:17,348 --> 00:04:18,208It could be from anyone.8500:04:18,218 --> 00:04:20,278It could be from anyone,regardless of their background.8600:04:20,758 --> 00:04:23,508And so that's, I think, key with,especially with the way that the8700:04:23,508 --> 00:04:28,318world's going, that we hear nowa lot of operations and firms are8800:04:28,418 --> 00:04:31,168bypassing the need for a degree.8900:04:31,628 --> 00:04:31,818Really?9000:04:32,998 --> 00:04:37,278Yeah, there's if you can show that youhave the skill set, you know, whether9100:04:37,278 --> 00:04:40,718it's in technology or whether it's instrategy, if you have a skill set that9200:04:40,718 --> 00:04:44,858can really make up for the lack of adegree and you have that experience.9300:04:44,858 --> 00:04:47,338I think that's you know,an avenue for people.9400:04:47,348 --> 00:04:51,508However, I will say that educationis still still key, especially9500:04:51,668 --> 00:04:54,318for your listeners who might bein different parts of the world.9600:04:54,708 --> 00:04:54,788Yeah.9700:04:55,258 --> 00:04:57,718Yeah, to give you a bit of, togive you a bit of additional color9800:04:57,758 --> 00:04:59,188I'm currently based in Tokyo.9900:04:59,728 --> 00:05:02,728The last 10 years of my career, orthe last 10 years of my life, frankly,10000:05:02,728 --> 00:05:06,668have been in split between HongKong, Tokyo, Shanghai, Singapore.10100:05:07,318 --> 00:05:10,858And that's where I've learned alot of, yeah, yeah, I would say10200:05:10,858 --> 00:05:12,588that I've traveled quite a bit.10300:05:13,158 --> 00:05:16,154And it really started frombeing flexible, right?10400:05:16,154 --> 00:05:21,968I think being flexible and understandingthat just like education, your10500:05:21,968 --> 00:05:23,578career is not a linear path either.10600:05:24,048 --> 00:05:27,618Like, if you take advantage of thesituation and you have a certain set of10700:05:27,618 --> 00:05:30,928base skill sets that you really believein, and you know you can deliver with,10800:05:31,638 --> 00:05:36,013being flexible on, okay, can you, canyou, can you head over to Tokyo first?10900:05:36,543 --> 00:05:38,613For six days and help a client out.11000:05:38,993 --> 00:05:42,733And then for me, that turned that for me,that turned into six years and a wife.11100:05:43,333 --> 00:05:49,003So I packed, I packed thesuitcase, I packed the suitcase.11200:05:49,003 --> 00:05:51,663And the next thing I knowI'm there for six years.11300:05:51,863 --> 00:05:54,183And of course I had a lot ofdifferent stops in between.11400:05:54,603 --> 00:05:58,413I'd say one of them being Singapore,I think that that to me was a very11500:05:58,413 --> 00:06:05,203big point in my life because while Iwas in Singapore I had moved in 2019.11600:06:05,543 --> 00:06:12,373Really from the from Hong Kong onthe back of the things that were11700:06:12,373 --> 00:06:15,303happening in Hong Kong at the time,there was a lot of capital flight.11800:06:15,683 --> 00:06:19,043I had seen that, okay, this is, Isee where the next opportunities11900:06:19,043 --> 00:06:19,973in Asia are going to be.12000:06:20,393 --> 00:06:21,393For me, that was Singapore.12100:06:21,393 --> 00:06:22,973I saw the money wasflowing into Singapore.12200:06:23,223 --> 00:06:24,283Let me go ahead and follow that.12300:06:24,923 --> 00:06:28,083The minute I move into Singaporeabout three months later it's12400:06:28,093 --> 00:06:29,993January, 2020 COVID hits.12500:06:31,773 --> 00:06:32,363Yeah.12600:06:32,593 --> 00:06:36,463And for, for all of you guys are Whoare in Asia, you, you would understand,12700:06:36,503 --> 00:06:40,483you understand that the, a lot ofthe lockdowns in, in Asia were much12800:06:40,503 --> 00:06:43,813more fierce than they were in otherparts of the world, like the U.12900:06:43,813 --> 00:06:44,233S.13000:06:44,873 --> 00:06:49,713You know, I had a a 30 squaremeter apartment, 400 square13100:06:49,713 --> 00:06:51,143foot flat in Singapore.13200:06:51,423 --> 00:06:54,833And for six months, I wasthere alone by myself.13300:06:55,033 --> 00:06:55,873Really not.13400:06:56,753 --> 00:07:00,223The lockdowns were so serious thatyou couldn't meet with your friends13500:07:00,223 --> 00:07:02,943or these types of things and as anexpat in Singapore, if you leave,13600:07:02,943 --> 00:07:04,193you wouldn't be able to come back.13700:07:04,193 --> 00:07:07,593So I decided to tough it out,where the only person that I would13800:07:07,593 --> 00:07:11,083speak to in person was my Uberdelivery driver for six months.13900:07:12,463 --> 00:07:16,853Yeah, I think that gives youa lot of perspective and it14000:07:16,853 --> 00:07:19,073forces you to readjust your.14100:07:19,148 --> 00:07:22,358You know, to kind of readjustyour what you want in life.14200:07:22,388 --> 00:07:27,028And that's, that's what led me to,you know, kind of revisit what you14300:07:27,028 --> 00:07:31,938knew me as really just spending a lotof time with family and really trying14400:07:31,938 --> 00:07:33,848to give back and do things that way.14500:07:33,848 --> 00:07:40,128So after COVID, you know, I reassessedI decided, okay, it's, if I, if, if14600:07:40,138 --> 00:07:44,243for some reason I passed away in myapartment, The first person to find14700:07:44,243 --> 00:07:47,373me would have been my assistant, andthat was a very sobering thought.14800:07:47,373 --> 00:07:48,098I miss that.14900:07:48,098 --> 00:07:48,823I miss that.15000:07:49,383 --> 00:07:49,933Yeah.15100:07:49,933 --> 00:07:52,963Dr William T Choctaw: Well,you know, I hadn't thought15200:07:52,963 --> 00:07:54,073about the whole COVID thing.15300:07:54,093 --> 00:07:58,563It's interesting that the thing aboutrelationships, every podcast that15400:07:58,563 --> 00:08:04,103I've done, we've done 40 so far, Ialways end with my lessons learned.15500:08:04,453 --> 00:08:06,633And one of those is whatyou just mentioned, that15600:08:06,703 --> 00:08:08,788everything is a relationship.15700:08:08,788 --> 00:08:13,463A relationship based on mutual respect,mutual trust, good communication.15800:08:13,798 --> 00:08:16,288And if you have that,then you're in good shape.15900:08:16,568 --> 00:08:19,448And if you don't have that,then you've got some work to do.16000:08:19,978 --> 00:08:20,098Yeah.16100:08:21,268 --> 00:08:22,608John: Yeah, no, absolutely.16200:08:22,608 --> 00:08:29,588And I've had so many of thoseexperiences where I had a relationship,16300:08:29,588 --> 00:08:34,138of course, with a, at the time, asubordinate of mine at my last firm.16400:08:34,138 --> 00:08:35,458We were good friends.16500:08:35,728 --> 00:08:39,268I brought him on to myfirm when I was in Asia.16600:08:39,898 --> 00:08:42,888And then, I took some timeoff after Singapore, and guess16700:08:42,888 --> 00:08:44,098who hired me into his firm?16800:08:45,698 --> 00:08:49,068The guy that I hired, seven years before.16900:08:49,558 --> 00:08:53,158So, it's, it's cyclical,and he, it did work.17000:08:53,158 --> 00:08:58,468And so, it's, those relationshipswere, it's, it's, it's,17100:08:58,478 --> 00:08:59,688it's a two way relationship.17200:08:59,708 --> 00:09:02,808You put in what you take from it,and, and really genuine empathy.17300:09:03,188 --> 00:09:05,618And understanding it's like,Hey, I want to help you.17400:09:05,978 --> 00:09:10,328My, my goal is for, you know, for,for my, the people that I have these17500:09:10,328 --> 00:09:13,948relationships with to get some sleepat night, you know, we work, we have17600:09:13,948 --> 00:09:17,358a very, we work in a global economy.17700:09:17,918 --> 00:09:19,368Work is being done everywhere.17800:09:19,368 --> 00:09:21,658People are, people are workingat all hours of the day.17900:09:21,658 --> 00:09:24,358What I really want to focus on with myfriends, it's like, Hey, I just want18000:09:24,358 --> 00:09:29,458to make sure that you guys get what youneed for me as a colleague, as a friend.18100:09:30,928 --> 00:09:35,188What comes of it may come, and for methat ended up being hired by my previous18200:09:35,188 --> 00:09:37,078subordinate, which is, which is fantastic.18300:09:37,368 --> 00:09:37,948Oh, that18400:09:38,338 --> 00:09:39,328Dr William T Choctaw: is fantastic.18500:09:39,718 --> 00:09:40,078Yeah.18600:09:40,168 --> 00:09:45,018Going back to your experience in that,that small apartment for six months, how18700:09:45,018 --> 00:09:47,008did you, how did you get through that?18800:09:47,078 --> 00:09:50,608I, I, I, I just, how did that work?18900:09:51,978 --> 00:09:57,218John: So that, that was, that was up Iguess logistically, lots of food delivery.19000:09:57,268 --> 00:09:59,108Singapore was very serious about it.19100:09:59,883 --> 00:10:00,633Lockdown.19200:10:00,653 --> 00:10:01,993So I got through it that way.19300:10:02,323 --> 00:10:06,583The other way was really keeping in touchwith friends and family digitally, you19400:10:06,583 --> 00:10:13,043know, FaceTimes and Zooms and watching,but watching them get older over FaceTime19500:10:13,043 --> 00:10:14,973was, was kind of heartbreaking for me.19600:10:15,423 --> 00:10:19,653So I, it really helped me get throughthat time knowing like, okay, at the19700:10:19,653 --> 00:10:21,683end of this, I will be able to see them.19800:10:22,343 --> 00:10:25,973Yeah, and so it's, I would say Iwould not wish that on anybody, but19900:10:26,793 --> 00:10:30,483I was, I did have a lot of spare timein the hours that I wasn't working.20000:10:30,483 --> 00:10:32,993I picked up, I picked up pottery.20100:10:32,993 --> 00:10:34,453I picked up Python.20200:10:35,108 --> 00:10:38,578You know, I, I started watchingcricket cricket is a major sport in20300:10:38,588 --> 00:10:40,178Singapore so I picked up cricket.20400:10:40,788 --> 00:10:43,678And so, you know, I, I tried tomake the most out of you know an20500:10:43,678 --> 00:10:47,148ideal situation, you know, justto have extra time and I'm alone.20600:10:47,448 --> 00:10:48,928I was alone at the time I was not married.20700:10:49,448 --> 00:10:52,138So I certainly tried to do as muchas I could to keep myself busy.20800:10:52,908 --> 00:10:55,158Dr William T Choctaw: And so youuse that time to actually to grow.20900:10:57,588 --> 00:10:57,888Yeah.21000:10:58,488 --> 00:10:58,668John: Yeah.21100:10:58,728 --> 00:11:02,438I think the idea of lifelonglearning to me is key.21200:11:03,038 --> 00:11:04,938I like to try to learnsomething new every day.21300:11:05,348 --> 00:11:09,298You know, whether it's reading anewspaper I still like to read the tactile21400:11:09,298 --> 00:11:11,078newspaper when I can get my hands on it.21500:11:11,228 --> 00:11:13,838You know, I could be a Luddite attimes, even though I work in tech.21600:11:14,418 --> 00:11:17,498And so I just try to learn somethingnew every day, whether or I'm21700:11:17,498 --> 00:11:20,858learning from something from thegrocery at the grocery, whether it's21800:11:21,388 --> 00:11:23,028from someone or something, right?21900:11:23,048 --> 00:11:27,468So I try to, I try to take the timeand I think about that actively.22000:11:27,468 --> 00:11:30,318It's like, okay, have I learned,have I learned something new today?22100:11:31,768 --> 00:11:36,248Dr William T Choctaw: And that's reallyvery smart to, to consciously be aware of22200:11:36,248 --> 00:11:41,588where you are mentally and physically andto, and to have, have, have a plan, you22300:11:41,588 --> 00:11:47,398know, to have standards or things thatyou want to achieve as compared to being22400:11:49,438 --> 00:11:53,308passive, you know, to be more active andto be more involved and to take charge.22500:11:54,098 --> 00:11:54,518Interesting.22600:11:55,018 --> 00:11:57,238Tell me more about the work that you do.22700:11:57,498 --> 00:12:05,618I was fascinated by the terms of Dataanalytics and and dispute investigations.22800:12:05,658 --> 00:12:10,058Now, I think legal when Ido that, but I'm not sure.22900:12:10,498 --> 00:12:12,078I'm not sure what all that means.23000:12:12,828 --> 00:12:13,148John: Sure.23100:12:13,148 --> 00:12:13,418Thanks.23200:12:13,418 --> 00:12:14,868So from a very, from a very high.23300:12:14,868 --> 00:12:19,958You know, as, as a attorney,you would need to understand the23400:12:19,988 --> 00:12:21,608kind of the discovery process.23500:12:22,143 --> 00:12:25,823And you can imagine the discoveryprocess now with the amount of data23600:12:25,823 --> 00:12:30,443that's being generated on a daily basiswhen we're thinking of items like your23700:12:30,473 --> 00:12:35,783iPhone or your Apple watch that givesGPS locations where, okay, where was23800:12:35,783 --> 00:12:37,353this individual at this time of day?23900:12:37,653 --> 00:12:41,853So there's this real law, hugeamounts of data that need to be.24000:12:42,568 --> 00:12:45,008Thought of in lit in litigation.24100:12:45,028 --> 00:12:49,038So as you can imagine, there's nottoo many lawyers with that background.24200:12:49,378 --> 00:12:54,138And so I found this niche about 10 years,10 or 15 years ago, early on in my career.24300:12:55,138 --> 00:13:00,258And it's really just around largeamounts of data in a dispute between two24400:13:00,258 --> 00:13:06,358parties and investigation by, you know,the Department of Justice or the SEC.24500:13:06,908 --> 00:13:12,048And so this, this Is the problem,not just in the US, but for24600:13:12,048 --> 00:13:13,588American companies abroad as well.24700:13:14,058 --> 00:13:17,738Or any foreign company that's publiclytraded in the United States still has to24800:13:17,738 --> 00:13:20,348adhere to the regulations here in the US.24900:13:20,798 --> 00:13:24,608And so as you can see, that's a very,that can be a very portable skill set.25000:13:26,523 --> 00:13:28,643Yeah, so that's me was important.25100:13:28,703 --> 00:13:31,003I would say when I made thedecision to move into this,25200:13:31,003 --> 00:13:32,313I understood it was a niche.25300:13:32,723 --> 00:13:35,863I, I, I enjoyed thestrategy of things more.25400:13:35,953 --> 00:13:38,763But for me, strategy isdifferent in different countries.25500:13:39,153 --> 00:13:41,493What can get what, what can I leverage?25600:13:42,573 --> 00:13:45,303Into a career that allows meto move to different countries.25700:13:45,303 --> 00:13:49,123And that was really important to me atthe time being able to see the world25800:13:49,663 --> 00:13:53,723frankly on someone else's dime but,and being able, but also being able25900:13:53,723 --> 00:13:56,313to help clients in different partsof the world and build relationships26000:13:56,393 --> 00:13:58,423with people that I would not have.26100:13:58,828 --> 00:14:01,738Met if I did not move outof the United States, so26200:14:01,738 --> 00:14:03,668Dr William T Choctaw: there wasan element of intentionality.26300:14:04,188 --> 00:14:08,208But with you, you wanted to findthat niche and make sure that you26400:14:08,468 --> 00:14:12,648had a skill set that was marketablethat that and marketable and26500:14:14,558 --> 00:14:15,468John: yeah, there's.26600:14:15,968 --> 00:14:20,758You know, I can, I can move back andsaying early on my career when I started,26700:14:20,758 --> 00:14:22,958I, I knew that I wanted to be in Asia.26800:14:22,968 --> 00:14:27,988I had taken a backpacking tripright before I started working and26900:14:27,988 --> 00:14:30,878I realized, okay, this would begreat if I can make it out here.27000:14:31,228 --> 00:14:35,058And if I could work here and, you know,do some good, you know, in my spare time27100:14:35,058 --> 00:14:36,968while also being able to grow my career.27200:14:37,598 --> 00:14:39,588And so what I really thoughtabout is, number one, like you27300:14:39,588 --> 00:14:40,638said, the marketable skills.27400:14:41,198 --> 00:14:46,598But, but number two, once I was at alarge, a firm that has that global reach,27500:14:46,788 --> 00:14:48,968I thought, okay, who do I need to talk to?27600:14:49,008 --> 00:14:52,688Who do I need to build relationshipswith who can help me get to Asia?27700:14:54,728 --> 00:14:58,608And so, you know, just beingvery deliberate in your plan.27800:14:59,958 --> 00:15:02,048being very deliberate andworking towards your plan.27900:15:02,048 --> 00:15:06,078You might not take 10 steps a day,but you might make half a step.28000:15:06,078 --> 00:15:08,158And that's still, that'sstill progression.28100:15:09,108 --> 00:15:09,878Why do you think28200:15:09,878 --> 00:15:13,438Dr William T Choctaw: that your planwork and others who I'm sure they28300:15:13,438 --> 00:15:17,428may have had similar ideas didn'twork, but what, what do you think was28400:15:17,428 --> 00:15:23,278unique about the way you did whateverthat allowed you to be successful?28500:15:24,348 --> 00:15:27,188John: I would say thetwo, two major things.28600:15:27,188 --> 00:15:29,398And really one, it goes backto relationships as well.28700:15:29,418 --> 00:15:35,173One, the person the first, personthat I worked with that once I started28800:15:35,183 --> 00:15:39,023looking, making a deliberate effortto, Hey, I want to be based in Asia.28900:15:39,023 --> 00:15:39,993I want to move to Hong Kong.29000:15:39,993 --> 00:15:41,163I want to move to Tokyo.29100:15:41,713 --> 00:15:48,093The first person who I looked towardswas the person who I've worked with for29200:15:48,153 --> 00:15:50,153the past 10 years at different firms.29300:15:51,113 --> 00:15:54,913We might do business together,but she, she, she's one of my29400:15:54,913 --> 00:15:57,163mentors and she was really key.29500:15:57,843 --> 00:16:01,753And me being able to show all ofthat thought and effort beforehand29600:16:01,763 --> 00:16:02,543was like, Hey, you know what?29700:16:02,543 --> 00:16:03,403You're serious about this.29800:16:03,403 --> 00:16:07,803You don't want to just come out and,and kind of you know, just party.29900:16:07,823 --> 00:16:09,703You really want to comeout and do some good work.30000:16:09,703 --> 00:16:14,903And so I think that made such a, madesuch a impression on her that she's been30100:16:14,903 --> 00:16:17,823my mentor since Yeah, so relationships.30200:16:17,823 --> 00:16:20,143I know I keep on harping onthat, but it's certainly for me.30300:16:20,143 --> 00:16:20,863That's been it.30400:16:21,273 --> 00:16:23,453And number two is willing to take risks.30500:16:25,253 --> 00:16:27,463Willing to take risksand be uncomfortable.30600:16:27,593 --> 00:16:32,853You know, it's certainly before movingout to before moving out to Hong Kong I30700:16:32,853 --> 00:16:35,613was taking Chinese or Cantonese lessons.30800:16:36,133 --> 00:16:37,443I was taking Mandarin lessons.30900:16:37,903 --> 00:16:42,003But I wasn't only, but six months in,I get a call from a client in Tokyo.31000:16:42,003 --> 00:16:43,723Hey, can you come over for six days?31100:16:43,773 --> 00:16:46,053Next thing I know, Ihave to learn Japanese.31200:16:46,453 --> 00:16:50,793And of course, that's not a, that's,that's not an the easiest situation.31300:16:50,793 --> 00:16:53,853It's a very volatile movingfrom one country to another.31400:16:54,238 --> 00:16:58,738Over the course of a month, essentiallyjust on the drop of a you know, just31500:16:58,738 --> 00:17:02,208basically at the drop of a hat, Iwould say being opportunistic when31600:17:02,208 --> 00:17:06,508you see that opportunity, you smellthat opportunity, you see that you31700:17:06,508 --> 00:17:09,998might, you're going to have to put inthe work, but at the end of the day,31800:17:10,228 --> 00:17:11,868can, can you do some good work there?31900:17:11,868 --> 00:17:12,918And sure.32000:17:12,948 --> 00:17:16,623And so I think taking risks for me wasthe And the relationships are the two32100:17:16,623 --> 00:17:18,023of the biggest things that propelled me.32200:17:18,933 --> 00:17:20,973Dr William T Choctaw: I would thinkthat it's certainly to be able to32300:17:20,983 --> 00:17:23,523take those risks and to be able to32400:17:27,133 --> 00:17:31,223open up, requires a certaindegree of confidence.32500:17:31,443 --> 00:17:33,523Where does your levelof confidence come from?32600:17:33,763 --> 00:17:36,723How did you, you know, becausea lot of people want to do those32700:17:36,723 --> 00:17:40,643things that you've done, butthey may and probably never will.32800:17:40,943 --> 00:17:45,863Why, what, what, where did youget that that made you think32900:17:45,863 --> 00:17:47,073that you could actually do it?33000:17:47,083 --> 00:17:47,923So you went ahead and33100:17:47,923 --> 00:17:48,263John: did it.33200:17:49,378 --> 00:17:53,178It's, it's, it's, there's no magicanswer, but I would say preparation.33300:17:54,018 --> 00:17:55,358I was, I was prepared.33400:17:55,768 --> 00:17:57,938I prepared myself atevery step of the way.33500:17:57,938 --> 00:18:02,098I, I, when I, when I chose myuniversity for undergrad, I picked a33600:18:02,098 --> 00:18:05,913university that was very That fit me.33700:18:06,083 --> 00:18:09,763Not because it was a big name, it'sbecause their program was something that33800:18:10,063 --> 00:18:12,033I could see myself being successful in.33900:18:12,253 --> 00:18:12,563Right?34000:18:12,863 --> 00:18:14,533They would give me the tools to succeed.34100:18:15,173 --> 00:18:18,843I was prepared once I startedmy career because I knew who34200:18:18,843 --> 00:18:20,773the players were on day one.34300:18:20,783 --> 00:18:23,193You know, I did my research, duediligence, whether you're using34400:18:23,203 --> 00:18:26,363LinkedIn, whether you're lookingat whatever anyone's published.34500:18:26,363 --> 00:18:29,743And, you know, this is, this is some,something that I tell a lot of you know,34600:18:29,743 --> 00:18:33,623when I speak at schools and these types ofthings, is know who, know your audience.34700:18:34,113 --> 00:18:38,183You know, LinkedIn, read anythingthey've ever published, read their34800:18:38,183 --> 00:18:39,953books if you can, if they have.34900:18:40,313 --> 00:18:44,823And that really gives you an ideaof the steps you can take next.35000:18:44,823 --> 00:18:47,713And so, that, for me that,it was just the preparation.35100:18:47,933 --> 00:18:51,523Preparation and Yeah, I would love tosay that I'm a big gambler but I'm not.35200:18:51,533 --> 00:18:54,083I'm, I need, I need data.35300:18:54,173 --> 00:18:58,343I'm a data guy so I need to ingest asmuch data as I can to make a decision.35400:18:59,203 --> 00:19:02,713Dr William T Choctaw: And that makes alot of sense that that you prepared for.35500:19:02,773 --> 00:19:04,063This wasn't an accident.35600:19:04,423 --> 00:19:06,093You, as you said, you did the work.35700:19:07,223 --> 00:19:10,303When you picked out your school,it wasn't just because of the name,35800:19:10,303 --> 00:19:14,053but you knew what you wanted, andyou wanted to see and wanted to make35900:19:14,053 --> 00:19:18,773sure that school was compatible andwould help you along with your goals.36000:19:19,093 --> 00:19:23,413And, and I think that, that, again,that level of intentionality is, is36100:19:23,413 --> 00:19:27,553a lot of times something that, thatwe, we don't do as much as we should.36200:19:27,553 --> 00:19:31,253We sort of wait for that magicmoment, and indeed you create36300:19:31,253 --> 00:19:32,633the magic in your own life.36400:19:35,113 --> 00:19:36,773John: Yeah, that's that'scertainly the case.36500:19:36,773 --> 00:19:41,203It's when you see that opportunity seesthat you really only if you let it pass36600:19:41,203 --> 00:19:46,293you by, you know, and we've we've all donethis where you see an opportunity and you.36700:19:46,653 --> 00:19:49,973You're thinking about it months andyears later, what if I did this,36800:19:50,313 --> 00:19:53,803did this differently, you know, Ithink my goal is really by being36900:19:53,803 --> 00:19:56,013prepared is that I won't have it.37000:19:56,043 --> 00:19:58,283I'll have I can minimizemy regrets later on.37100:19:58,613 --> 00:19:59,393Dr William T Choctaw: Right, right.37200:19:59,503 --> 00:20:01,283That's that's perfect.37300:20:01,633 --> 00:20:02,093Absolutely.37400:20:04,033 --> 00:20:06,383As you travel around the world.37500:20:06,403 --> 00:20:09,033Well, let's let's justsay in Japan and Tokyo.37600:20:09,638 --> 00:20:13,818But what have you learned as someof the major differences between37700:20:14,138 --> 00:20:15,938Tokyo and, say, California?37800:20:17,168 --> 00:20:20,728John: So I'd say the cultureis drastically different.37900:20:20,728 --> 00:20:26,348I would say that you know, it's, thework culture is it's, it's less of a38000:20:26,348 --> 00:20:31,118meritocracy, like it is here in theUnited States, and more of seniority.38100:20:31,478 --> 00:20:36,248And so having to understand thatand coming in as the, coming38200:20:36,248 --> 00:20:37,528in as the guy from America.38300:20:37,953 --> 00:20:40,303Or as that, you know, kind oflike that expat from the U.38400:20:40,303 --> 00:20:44,373S., I, I had to understand, like, I'mnot here to reinvent the wheel, I'm just38500:20:44,373 --> 00:20:46,283here to make sure that it's less noisy.38600:20:46,833 --> 00:20:51,193Right, and it's, and under, having a goodunderstanding, coming from California,38700:20:51,193 --> 00:20:55,313where we're really blessed with hugediversity I had grown up with Japanese38800:20:55,363 --> 00:20:58,093friends, and I had grown up with Chinesefriends, I've grown up with European38900:20:58,093 --> 00:21:02,863friends, and so, when I made it out to,you know, all the stops that I've made39000:21:02,863 --> 00:21:08,813it to, I wasn't surprised because Ispent time around my friend's parents.39100:21:08,813 --> 00:21:11,763I spent time around you know,first generation immigrants.39200:21:11,773 --> 00:21:14,833So when I got back to, whenI got back to Asia, it was, I39300:21:14,833 --> 00:21:16,683wasn't surprised by anything.39400:21:17,323 --> 00:21:23,233And I was really cognizant ofRespecting the values, the cultural39500:21:23,233 --> 00:21:28,023values, but understanding where Ican add, where I could add my value.39600:21:28,333 --> 00:21:30,093Dr William T Choctaw: Right,right, where you would fit.39700:21:31,093 --> 00:21:32,163Where I would fit in.39800:21:32,413 --> 00:21:33,783Right, you did your homework.39900:21:34,643 --> 00:21:35,643I did my homework.40000:21:35,993 --> 00:21:41,233Your experience and that, and that's,that is so important because I think what40100:21:41,453 --> 00:21:47,568it does is it sets one's expectationsappropriate, at an appropriate level.40200:21:47,948 --> 00:21:52,648And it allows you the opportunity toreach those expectations by having a plan.40300:21:52,658 --> 00:21:53,478You had a plan.40400:21:54,368 --> 00:21:54,668Yeah.40500:21:54,668 --> 00:21:54,908And,40600:21:55,268 --> 00:21:58,598John: but, but at the same time, andthis worthy getting, getting punched40700:21:58,598 --> 00:22:01,768in the mouth, everyone has a plan untilyou get punched in the mouth, right?40800:22:01,768 --> 00:22:03,128Until you get punched in the mouth.40900:22:03,128 --> 00:22:04,168Until you get punched in the mouth.41000:22:04,338 --> 00:22:07,528And you will get punched in themouth no matter how prepared you41100:22:07,528 --> 00:22:10,208are, no matter how brilliant you are.41200:22:10,743 --> 00:22:14,183You will get punched in the mouth andrecovering for that, from that is key.41300:22:14,303 --> 00:22:18,863And I would say that's actually oneof the differences I've seen in the U.41400:22:18,863 --> 00:22:19,153S.41500:22:19,183 --> 00:22:21,483versus, you know, parts of Asia.41600:22:21,863 --> 00:22:23,693I can say, we're in the U.41700:22:23,693 --> 00:22:29,743S., we have the SATs invarious parts of Asia.41800:22:30,428 --> 00:22:33,548There's the, the, theuniversity entrance exams.41900:22:34,268 --> 00:22:35,098If in the U.42000:22:35,098 --> 00:22:35,438S.42100:22:35,448 --> 00:22:38,938you don't get perfect scores or thescores that you want in your SATs, you42200:22:38,938 --> 00:22:43,118can go to a community college and you cantransfer into the school of your dreams.42300:22:43,538 --> 00:22:47,428In Asia, if you, you have a oneshot at that, you have one shot.42400:22:47,578 --> 00:22:50,288If you don't make it in,there's fewer avenues.42500:22:50,778 --> 00:22:54,158From from educational standpointto then get into your dream school.42600:22:54,688 --> 00:22:56,848And so I would say that's thebiggest difference where in the U.42700:22:56,848 --> 00:22:57,048S.42800:22:57,068 --> 00:22:59,958we second chances are easier to come by.42900:23:00,418 --> 00:23:04,078So that's, that's one of the biggerdifferences I've seen, but at the same43000:23:04,078 --> 00:23:09,258time, you know, if you're prepared,you know, there's no, it's no fault43100:23:09,268 --> 00:23:10,638of anyone else's except yourself.43200:23:10,758 --> 00:23:12,308And so I would say just.43300:23:12,748 --> 00:23:14,038That's how I live it.43400:23:14,198 --> 00:23:18,008If I, if I know that I'm going to runinto something bad, I know that it was43500:23:18,698 --> 00:23:20,838my fault because I wasn't prepared.43600:23:21,168 --> 00:23:22,538I like to think about it that way.43700:23:22,558 --> 00:23:22,848Right.43800:23:22,898 --> 00:23:25,158And so those are, you know,looking at that, those are43900:23:25,168 --> 00:23:26,388some of the bigger differences.44000:23:26,808 --> 00:23:31,428Aside from the public transportation,which I miss dearly, I, I44100:23:31,428 --> 00:23:32,808am not a fan of driving.44200:23:33,468 --> 00:23:37,858so I like my hour on the bus orthe train where I can read a book.44300:23:37,888 --> 00:23:40,178I can read, you know, Ican listen to your podcast.44400:23:40,228 --> 00:23:43,398I can do something, you know,productive rather than being in a car44500:23:43,398 --> 00:23:47,458for an hour to go 20 kilometers or10 miles and thinking, okay, this is.44600:23:47,923 --> 00:23:48,523This is awful.44700:23:50,693 --> 00:23:52,133Dr William T Choctaw: That is fascinating.44800:23:52,383 --> 00:23:57,683You know, going back to the whole, Ilike your analogy about getting punched44900:23:57,683 --> 00:24:03,883in the way I think about that is I tellmyself that I need to stay relentless,45000:24:04,743 --> 00:24:08,523that bad things are going to happen interms of me not getting what I want,45100:24:09,553 --> 00:24:13,463certainly not getting it when I wantbut if it's important, if it's my45200:24:13,463 --> 00:24:15,563goal, then I need to stay relentless.45300:24:15,563 --> 00:24:20,593And I tell myself no matter what happens,I'm, I'm, I'm moving in that direction.45400:24:21,278 --> 00:24:24,998So it's, I think it's sort ofanticipated again that you may get45500:24:24,998 --> 00:24:26,998punched in the mouth, but that's okay.45600:24:27,198 --> 00:24:30,948You know, you learn from thatand you, you adapt and you move45700:24:30,968 --> 00:24:31,328John: forward.45800:24:32,968 --> 00:24:34,838You know, to echo your thoughts, Dr.45900:24:34,838 --> 00:24:38,028Choctaw, I think it's reallylearning from your mistakes.46000:24:38,798 --> 00:24:41,378And that's, you know, thatlesson I hope we all learn at an46100:24:41,398 --> 00:24:45,038early age, and it's something,something that will never change.46200:24:45,038 --> 00:24:47,478If you can learn from yourmistakes, you will make progression.46300:24:47,548 --> 00:24:50,318One step, you know, two stepsforward, one step back, hey,46400:24:50,318 --> 00:24:51,788that's still one step forward.46500:24:51,818 --> 00:24:52,718So I'll take that.46600:24:53,238 --> 00:24:54,078Dr William T Choctaw: Exactly.46700:24:54,158 --> 00:24:54,818Exactly.46800:24:55,218 --> 00:24:59,018And I think another part of that is justbeing grateful for how you're blessed.46900:24:59,038 --> 00:25:02,558You mentioned earlier about youknow, advice that Father Tony had47000:25:02,568 --> 00:25:05,083given you, that God is sort of Yeah.47100:25:05,273 --> 00:25:11,003Taking care of us and and has a planalso for us and even if our plan doesn't47200:25:11,003 --> 00:25:17,763always work out our plan may not be theonly plan that's where there's Yeah,47300:25:17,763 --> 00:25:21,193John: no and that's you know, that'sthat helps me get through the day just47400:25:21,193 --> 00:25:27,413understanding that you know, there'sthere's We're all on this journey, and47500:25:27,413 --> 00:25:31,233there's going to be off ramps, there'sgoing to be on ramps, but at the end47600:25:31,233 --> 00:25:34,533of the day, you know, our goal is thesame, and the goal is to really live47700:25:34,533 --> 00:25:36,813a fulfilled and healthy life, right?47800:25:36,813 --> 00:25:39,933And I think there's so many waysto do that, it's not linear,47900:25:39,963 --> 00:25:42,743there's not just one path, it canhappen in a lot of different ways.48000:25:43,093 --> 00:25:46,193When I think about this, when Ithought of my career choices, and48100:25:46,193 --> 00:25:50,543seeing you as a podcaster these days,I, I'm just surprised how you talk.48200:25:51,763 --> 00:25:56,383Well, I'm just surprised to see andto see your transformation over the48300:25:56,383 --> 00:26:01,303years, having, you know, as the atyour different stages and seeing that,48400:26:01,803 --> 00:26:05,383you know, for, for me in my head,it's like 10 or 15 years ago, I never48500:26:05,383 --> 00:26:06,993thought that podcasting could be a.48600:26:07,403 --> 00:26:11,303A career choice for many people where Isee I have friends around me now who are48700:26:11,533 --> 00:26:16,243doing the same thing and really doing goodwork and reaching out to a large group of48800:26:16,243 --> 00:26:18,473people and, you know, doing great things.48900:26:18,473 --> 00:26:21,123And who could have thoughtabout this 10, 15 years ago?49000:26:21,163 --> 00:26:21,473Right?49100:26:21,473 --> 00:26:27,603And so the world is constantly changingand we just have to be prepared for it.49200:26:27,603 --> 00:26:32,573If we're prepared or as prepared as wecan be, those punches to the mouth won't49300:26:32,573 --> 00:26:34,123be as painful and you'll get up much49400:26:34,123 --> 00:26:34,633Dr William T Choctaw: faster.49500:26:34,983 --> 00:26:36,343Exactly, exactly.49600:26:36,573 --> 00:26:39,323I, you know, and just to addsome historical perspective, I49700:26:39,323 --> 00:26:40,763first met John when he was in.49800:26:41,243 --> 00:26:43,863Probably in high school,junior high and high school.49900:26:44,173 --> 00:26:51,223And John basically was the individual inour community who helped my wife and I in50000:26:51,223 --> 00:26:54,203our home to upgrade our computer system.50100:26:54,503 --> 00:26:57,153And so if you could imaginethis, this 10 year old.50200:26:57,518 --> 00:27:02,598a computer genius, in our opinion,coming in and saying, you know, Dr.50300:27:02,598 --> 00:27:06,188Choctaw, I'm sorry, but Ican't fix this computer.50400:27:06,968 --> 00:27:12,098You need to, you need to change it,that they no longer make the parts.50500:27:12,708 --> 00:27:15,258You need to just makea decision to upgrade.50600:27:15,548 --> 00:27:20,758So he taught us, my wife and I many,many, over many, many years about50700:27:20,768 --> 00:27:25,218improving our technology, how to takeadvantage of the appropriate technology.50800:27:25,218 --> 00:27:26,778It made our lives much simpler.50900:27:27,048 --> 00:27:30,508So when he looks at me as apodcaster, he's got to say,51000:27:30,518 --> 00:27:32,308you know, that really is a guy.51100:27:35,568 --> 00:27:37,578It's, it's amazing.51200:27:38,388 --> 00:27:42,028This guy and then makehim a podcast at 76.51300:27:42,028 --> 00:27:42,778Oh my lord.51400:27:43,218 --> 00:27:48,088That's just that's just not supposed tohappen and so and we we talk about you51500:27:48,088 --> 00:27:53,938constantly lorraine and i'm about how youhelped us And and that's why we take such51600:27:53,978 --> 00:27:59,148pride In what you have done, you know,we look at you as one of our children.51700:27:59,158 --> 00:28:04,683I know you're the son of hanshiand and and But, but we, we, we,51800:28:04,683 --> 00:28:08,493we feel blessed that, that, thatyou've been a part of our life.51900:28:08,503 --> 00:28:13,213Thanks, thanks to your parents for,for loaning you to us to help us out.52000:28:13,453 --> 00:28:15,283And then to see you do so well.52100:28:15,323 --> 00:28:20,473And, and, and, and the whole idea of notbeing linear, I think is just brilliant.52200:28:20,743 --> 00:28:23,423Because I think that's wherea lot of people get stuck.52300:28:23,853 --> 00:28:24,973Young and old.52400:28:25,023 --> 00:28:27,533I think a lot of times we olderpeople said, no, no, no, you got52500:28:27,533 --> 00:28:30,973to go this straight line and oneto two to three to four to five.52600:28:31,403 --> 00:28:34,743And some people said, no,I go one to three to five.52700:28:35,243 --> 00:28:37,113You know, I go every other number.52800:28:37,373 --> 00:28:41,813And I think just recognizing thatthere is a diversity of approach.52900:28:42,183 --> 00:28:43,823And you're exemplary of that.53000:28:43,873 --> 00:28:45,653And, and, and how that could53100:28:45,653 --> 00:28:45,943John: work.53200:28:47,078 --> 00:28:50,618Well, thank you for the kind wordsthat it's certainly I've I've been53300:28:50,618 --> 00:28:53,948blessed to have you in my life aswell as I remember our trips to Mexico53400:28:55,048 --> 00:29:01,978for the mission and learning thatthere's more more to life than that.53500:29:02,413 --> 00:29:08,003Chase of whatever you want to take sometime off and and I remember this was when53600:29:08,003 --> 00:29:12,683you were you've had your you had yourmultiple practices, your civil service.53700:29:12,913 --> 00:29:13,973Yeah, it's still on the weekend.53800:29:13,983 --> 00:29:17,603We had an opportunity to go toMexico and bring, you know, help the53900:29:17,673 --> 00:29:19,383help the folks there and it just.54000:29:20,293 --> 00:29:24,233Making the most of your time, if youcan do it, why couldn't I do it, right?54100:29:24,233 --> 00:29:25,983And that was lessons thatyou taught me at a young54200:29:25,983 --> 00:29:26,273Dr William T Choctaw: age.54300:29:26,733 --> 00:29:27,503Oh, thank you.54400:29:27,763 --> 00:29:32,673And I always remember what thewhat the mother used to tell us54500:29:32,673 --> 00:29:35,453when we would go to Mexico to help.54600:29:35,483 --> 00:29:39,383She would say, you know, you comehere you know, thinking that you,54700:29:39,383 --> 00:29:41,433you, you come here to help us.54800:29:42,108 --> 00:29:47,278But you actually come here for us tohelp you, and I, I never forgot that54900:29:47,278 --> 00:29:52,088because all of us, whenever we wouldleave, we were all exhilarated and we55000:29:52,108 --> 00:29:57,058felt good and that even though we weregiving, we were also receiving, and55100:29:57,058 --> 00:30:00,278we were probably receiving much morethan, than, than we gave, and I never55200:30:00,278 --> 00:30:05,138forgot that that life is about being ofservice to others, that that servitude55300:30:05,588 --> 00:30:10,463is extremely important because, ineffect, that reflexly makes us better.55400:30:10,943 --> 00:30:13,383and happier and more whole and everything.55500:30:13,993 --> 00:30:17,663Well, I, I want to be respectfulof your time and I, I'm just55600:30:17,663 --> 00:30:22,013extraordinarily grateful that, that,that you've come to talk with us.55700:30:22,223 --> 00:30:26,193In any words of wisdom that you wouldlike to leave with our audience?55800:30:26,633 --> 00:30:28,373Especially the youngpeople in our audience.55900:30:29,543 --> 00:30:30,213John: Sure thing.56000:30:30,273 --> 00:30:31,553Just be prepared.56100:30:32,473 --> 00:30:34,043Be prepared for the next day.56200:30:34,433 --> 00:30:35,663Do put in the work today.56300:30:36,743 --> 00:30:38,353And they'll be better tomorrows.56400:30:38,353 --> 00:30:39,273I'll promise you that.56500:30:39,283 --> 00:30:40,773We've been through, we've seen so much.56600:30:41,463 --> 00:30:45,493I know how it is to be very, very down,but I also know how it is where, hey,56700:30:45,493 --> 00:30:49,943you know what, even when I'm down, tryto get that energy, put it into work56800:30:49,943 --> 00:30:51,303today, and tomorrow will be better.56900:30:51,303 --> 00:30:54,273And, you know, I've facedthat, and I think that's key.57000:30:55,083 --> 00:30:55,273Keep57100:30:55,273 --> 00:30:55,723Dr William T Choctaw: on getting up.57200:30:56,903 --> 00:30:57,493Absolutely.57300:30:57,913 --> 00:30:59,403I completely agree with that.57400:30:59,433 --> 00:31:04,713And again, thank you, John, somuch for meeting with us today57500:31:04,903 --> 00:31:06,853and sharing your words of wisdom.57600:31:07,293 --> 00:31:08,703Keep doing what you're doing.57700:31:08,713 --> 00:31:12,143You know, I think, you know, Godhas a plan and you're a part of it.57800:31:12,983 --> 00:31:16,583And I think your work andyour life is exemplary.57900:31:17,463 --> 00:31:21,293aNd so with that we're going tolet you go and say, God bless.58000:31:22,203 --> 00:31:22,413Thank you.58100:31:22,413 --> 00:31:24,213Take care.